If you are are teenager’s parent you are surely concerned about drugs, alcohol, sex, education and other important issues. However, your anxious child is probably more interested in and stressed over fitting in fashionably. Yes, nowadays teenagers are under high pressure to unconditionally follow new fashion trends and get the latest designer accessories and clothes. If you have a teenage daughter, you should help her navigate and handle this pressure while at the same time she should develop her own and unique clothing style. Common-sense advices, patience and communication are the key factors to succeed in this mission.
Your communication channels should be as open as possible and you should encourage your daughter to talk to you in an non-confrontational, informal way on regular basis. If she comes in front of you with an idea to bleach her hair even though she is only 12, you should try to explain her why it is not recommended to use harsh chemicals at her age. If something is forbidden, it might only become more tempting for teenagers. So, try not to be judgmental and respond with no threat of punishment. However, you should respect your daughter choice. Keep in mind that your fashion tastes will probably be totally different. She might be crazy about, for example Hello Kitty accessories and clothing items. On the other hand, she might choose to dress like a rock star. If you have difficulties to deal with that, think about your teenage days and how did your parents react on your clothing style. Did you wear your clothes way you liked anyway? So, let your children develop their personal fashion sense. On the other hand, you should share some tips and tricks with her, she might find them useful.
It is of high importance to teach your teenage daughter to budget her earnings or allowance. If you encourage your children to earn money or save up to buy their own clothes and accessories, they will probably learn the value of the money and surely more appreciate it.